The Gounaris Family

Wednesday, August 20, 2008

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Thank you Nancy for letting everyone know. I am able to use Toms phone for a minute today and wanted to let everyone know I am doing OK. I have gotten several texts and voice mails. unfortunately, I am not able to read or listen to many of them due to the fact that I am unable to become emotional. I had surgery and my stomach is in pain so I cannot cry. I feel every ones love though and am grateful. My dad is coming from NM and I am so happy to have his support as well as the rest of my family and Toms. They have been so great.
For those of you who don't know, Monday I was very sick throwing up (which isn't unusual). At about 1am I woke up with excruciating pain in my abdomen. Tom rushed me to the ER. They did several ultrasounds and could not figure out what was wrong. I kept passing out and throwing up from the pain. After a while the pain became much worse and my blood pressure began to plummet dangerously low. They rushed me to the OR where they found I had an ectopic pregnancy and my left fallopian tube had burst leaving me with 2 liters of blood in my stomach. I am very lucky to be alive. Our baby was 13 weeks which is very rare for an ectopic pregnancy to last that long without being noticed. Heavenly Father was looking out for me and I know that our baby is with Him again and we will one day be reunited. Fortunately, my right fallopian tube is perfectly fine as well as my ovaries. After some time we will be able to try again.
Thank you for your prayers and support. I will read your comments when I am better and finally able to deal with the emotional part of this. Please spread the word so that I don't have to say any more than this. I love you all!

Sunday, August 17, 2008

The Big Apple

Yesterday I was feeling pretty good so I decided to head to Manhattan with Tom. I don't get to see much of Tom these days since he works so much, so it was nice to go and see what his work days are like. Plus I was feeling a little gypped since I turned the big 24 on Monday but I didn't get to do what I wanted because it was pouring rain and there was a tornado warning!
I have to say that there is never a shortage of entertainment in the city. You don't even have to pay a penny and you can be entertained ALL day! I wish that I could have taken pictures of all the crazy things I saw yesterday, but it probably would have been really rude to take pictures of all the crazy people
(of course, they probably wouldn't have noticed), but all I got a picture of was the pigeons, since I figured they wouldn't be hurt.

So, these may be one of those
"you had to be there" kinda things, but I still want to share. The first thing I saw when I got off the train was this man who literally looked like the ape on the Geico commercial! He was eating an ice cream cone and was REALLY into it if you know what I mean.
Next, I saw a man singing in the train station who was dressed up like Charlie Chaplin--I thought it was funny.
Then, there was the woman walking down the street wearing nothing but a t-shirt and a diaper...yes, you read right, a diaper! As crazy as this sounds, it's actually not the first time I have seen this! I don't know if it was the same lady, but a few years ago I saw the same sight...only difference was she was walking a dog.
Then of course you have the naked cowboy! He is always a sight to see! Don't worry folks, this picture was taken a few years ago when I was more
"adventurous"...I wouldn't go anywhere near the naked cowboy these days! (I cut off the bottom of the picture to save us all the pain!..and by the way if you don't know, he really isn't naked...they just call him that since all he wears are tighty whities!) Oh, and I can't leave out the tin man. If you've never seen him it's just this man that walks around wearing silver and his entire body is painted silver. 

As we were walking to the subway we saw another women who was VERY into her ice cream! She was looking at it as though it was the most interesting thing she had seen in all her life
(of course she was on drugs). Someone must have gone around buying the homeless and drug addicted ice cream yesterday!
Anyway, the list could go on and on....and on
(if you've been to NY you know what I mean). I hope nobody thinks I am horrible for making fun of these people, it's just very interesting to me. You don't see these kind of things where I am from.
When I first moved here
it was a bit of a culture shock...and I must admit I hated it! But now, I just love seeing how different things can be. Living in NY to me is honestly like a whole other country (of course if you ask anyone that is from here they will say that NY is the country).

So, if any of you were worried about me not getting enough culture in my life...come to NY! If I just took you to church on Sunday you would see what I mean. Half my ward ONLY speaks Spanish, one or two speak Korean...and then there are about 3 families like Tom and I who only  speak English. I was very confused one Sunday when I walked  in and in order to hear sacrament meeting in English you had to have headphones through which the missionaries translate. 
Anyway, I  decided to make the best of everything and just enjoy the "culture" of NY since I am probably going to be living here for a good portion of my life. It's not that I don't like it here, it's just that well...if you know me, you know that being here is a little out of my bubble. I love the trees, I love being near family (that is a HUGE help since I am prego), I love how the women in Relief Society at church are so happy I am here (I got called as the music director after one week! I'm surprised out of all the different types of people, nobody plays the piano!), and I love the weather and when the trees change colors in the fall. 
Well...here's to The Big Apple!

Thursday, August 14, 2008

Pregnancy update (keep scrolling down, I made other posts)

The pregnancy is going well other than being sick. I have a doctors appointment next Thursday morning. I had a little trip to the emergency room on Tuesday. I smelled something bad which made me throw up, and then I couldn't stop. Anything and everything I ate or drank came right back up. So of course I ended up really dehydrated. I spent the afternoon hooked to an iv. Not fun! I thought I was finally getting better...but then that happened. At least today is going well. It is only 11:30AM and I have already eaten 2 bowls of cereal, 2 bowls of jello, 2 yogurts, and some grapes...I feel like such a pig, but at least I have an appetite right? I go back to work next week to set up the classrooms and then the kids come the last week of August. Pray that I will feel good!
Don't forget to vote: Boy or Girl????
Here is a picture of my little bump.

Better late than never right?

Wow, I am a little behind, but I finally got out my printer so I can upload these pictures. There are a few posts today so make sure you scroll on down/up :) These are pictures from our anniversary and the 4th of July.

Tom and I in Times Square for our 2 yr anniversary


me "drinking" out of the worlds largest Hershey bottle


this Asian lady was jealous of my picture so she asked me to take one of her :)


Tom on the 4th at Jones Beach


me at Jones Beach waiting for the fireworks


Tom buried me in the sand


and they finally begin...


Our Utah house...

Well, I know we only lived here one month...but I did promise pictures so here are a few. I sure miss this house. It's CRAZY how much more you can get for you money in Utah compared to New York. Maybe one of these days I will take a picture of our NY dwelling (of course that would require me to finish unpacking). :)